Looking Forward

Detroit is gritty, it’s vibrant, it’s whatever you want it to be. Flourishing, empty. Friendly, dangerous. Diverse, segregated. It’s a city of contrast and that’s what makes it interesting. Detroit is transforming at an unfathomable rate. In many ways it’s going in two different directions. The city center is bustling and the neighborhoods are struggling. … More Looking Forward

Life Lately

We’re keeping busy over here. Life is good and in a world where life is hard, I don’t take anything for granted. So here’s a glimpse at our weekend adventures. Friday Danny and Lucas spent the day together and I invited my mom over for an occasion other than babysitting. Kat came over for our … More Life Lately

Life Lately

Social media can be exhausting but sometimes it can be inspiring too. My cousin Johannah shared this picture and it really brightened my spirits. A beautiful view of Detroit and a rare double rainbow during Pride Month – it’s hard not to feel hopeful when you see it. Since life has been too busy for … More Life Lately

Fantasy Friday

I’m a traditionalist and firmly believe we’re losing our humanity one app at a time. That said, I’m shamefully addicted and dependent on technology. Last night I laid in bed still wired from the cup of coffee I drank at 11pm for a final push in house work and work work tasks and fantasized of … More Fantasy Friday

Co-parenting

‘Co-parenting’ is often a phase associated with divorced or separated couples but I have no idea why. Aren’t all couples no matter their relationship status co-parenting? I know Danny and I are. We both bring unique talents and abilities to raising Lucas and it’s definitely a team effort. Danny leads the morning routine. I almost … More Co-parenting

I’m Not Sorry

“Apologize. Never say I’m sorry because you’re not sorry – you’re wonderful.” It was a passing comment made to me by an older woman at a public event after I accidentally bumped into her and immediately said, “I’m sorry.” Her comment has stuck with me for all these years and I almost never say “I’m … More I’m Not Sorry